Us girls are pretty good at this - complicating life... We assume that people can read our mind most of the time, but in my experience no one can. Have you tried to tell your man no, when you mean yes, and assuming that he knows you really mean yes? And who ends up being hurt or angry -You. Well, in all cases you must do something to change your life to get what you want and tell people and show them how you feel. I'm putting this one my fridge to always remind me:)
